Frequently Asked Questions

A jar of coconut oil works for cooking, but Love Oil was designed for the best sex of your life. Smooth texture, cupcake-like taste that’s amazing for foreplay, safe for your most sensitive areas, and no messy (i.e. unhygienic!) scooping. Just a simple squeeze from our chic tube. Because when it comes to intimacy, you deserve more than whatever’s sitting on aisle 5.

That’s just the coconut oil doing its thing. Since Love Oil is made with natural, organic ingredients, it can firm up a little in colder temps. No worries - it melts right back to silky with a little warmth. We recommend keeping it in your shower or another warm spot in your house so it’s always ready when you are. If it does harden, just warm it up in your hands for a few seconds before play.

Yes. Love Oil is made with organic, body-safe ingredients and is safe for intimacy. It’s edible, natural, and designed for your most sensitive areas. You can also use it with silicone or glass toys, just be sure to wash your toys thoroughly after each use, since oil can break down silicone over time. Love Oil isn’t condom-compatible, so if you’re using protection, reach for Shag Juice or Dew Më instead.

Yes! Love Oil doubles as a massage oil and absorbs beautifully into the skin. The silky texture makes it great for touch and foreplay, while the light vanilla flavor makes it just as enjoyable if things move beyond massage.

Yes. Love Oil is made with organic coconut oil, vanilla essence, and a touch of stevia, so it’s completely edible. It tastes like cupcakes, which makes it especially great for oral play.

Love Oil is oil-based and doesn’t contain water, so it doesn’t have a measurable pH range. The formula is made with organic coconut oil, organic beeswax, and other natural ingredients that are safe for your most sensitive areas.

It depends on how you want to use it. Shag Juice is water-based, pH-balanced, and safe to use with condoms and toys, making it a great all-around option. Love Oil is edible, massage-ready, and perfect for oral or partnered play, but it isn’t condom-compatible. Dew Më is silicone-based, condom-safe, and designed for ultra-slick, long-lasting glide, even in the shower or during anal play. If you’re not sure, you can always take our Lube Quiz to find your perfect match.

No. Because it’s oil-based, Love Oil isn’t compatible with latex, polyisoprene, or polyurethane condoms. If you’re using protection, choose Shag Juice (water-based) or Dew Më (silicone-based), both of which are condom-safe.

Love Oil can leave marks on some fabrics, but most come out easily with gentle dish soap or baking soda. To avoid any frustration, we recommend laying down a towel or using darker sheets if you’re concerned.

You’re right that many people avoid glycerin in intimate products, but polyglycerin-3 is different. It’s used for its moisturizing and conditioning properties, and because of its larger molecule size, it doesn’t absorb into sensitive skin as quickly as glycerin does. It also has a top safety rating from the Environmental Working Group and has been reviewed as safe by the Cosmetic Ingredient Review panel.

Coconut oil has been safely used for intimacy for a long time because of its moisturizing and antioxidant properties. Love Oil is made with organic coconut oil and other body-safe ingredients, and it’s designed for your most sensitive areas. Plus, Love Oil is FDA 510K cleared as a personal lubricant, meaning it passed FDA-required safety testing for internal use. While every body is unique, most people enjoy using it without any issues. If you know you have specific sensitivities, it’s always a good idea to check with your healthcare provider, but for many, Love Oil is a safe and natural choice.

It depends on how you want to use it. Shag Juice is water-based, pH-balanced, and safe to use with condoms and toys, making it a great all-around option. Love Oil is edible, massage-ready, and perfect for oral or partnered play, but it isn’t condom-compatible. Dew Më is silicone-based, condom-safe, and designed for ultra-slick, long-lasting glide, even in the shower or during anal play. If you’re not sure, you can always take our Lube Quiz to find your perfect match.

Yes. Shag Juice is water-based, condom-safe, and works with latex & polyisoprene condoms. It’s also toy-friendly and safe to use with any of our Vibez or other body-safe toys.

Shag Juice is safe to ingest, but it isn’t flavored. It’s best for condoms, toys, and penetrative play. If you want something edible and delicious for oral, Love Oil is the better choice -  it tastes like cupcakes.

Yes. Shag Juice is made with clean, body-safe ingredients and is pH-balanced to match your vaginal health. It’s free from parabens, glycerin, and other irritants, which makes it a gentle choice for sensitive skin.

Yes. Shag Juice is formulated to be gentle and pH-balanced, which makes it a good option for sensitive skin. It’s free from parabens, glycerin, and other common irritants, so most people find it comfortable to use even if they’re prone to sensitivities.

Silicone lube is all about long-lasting glide. If you don’t want to stop and reapply, or you’re using condoms, it’s a great choice. Dew Më is condom-friendly and keeps its silky texture no matter how long you go or what you’re doing, even in the shower. Just a heads up: it’s not flavored, so if oral play is more your thing, Love Oil is the better pick.

Silicone + silicone don’t mix. All of our Vibez are made with body-safe, medical-grade silicone, and using a silicone lube can break that material down over time. To keep your toys in perfect shape, stick with Love Oil or Shag Juice, both are totally toy-friendly.

Yes! Dew Më is totally condom-safe. It works with latex, polyisoprene, and polyurethane condoms, so you can stay protected without sacrificing that silky-smooth glide.

Dew Më is designed to go the distance. It’s incredibly long-lasting, so you won’t have to stop and reapply. Whether you’re having sex, enjoying solo time, in the shower, or exploring anal play, it stays silky for as long as you need it.

Yes, both dimethicone and dimethiconol are safe for vaginal use and commonly used in high-quality personal lubricants, even for people with sensitive skin. Dew Më is FDA-approved and has gone through safety testing to make sure it’s safe and effective. If you know you have specific sensitivities or allergies, it’s always a good idea to check with your doctor first.

Yes. Freshies are formulated to match your natural vaginal pH. They’re made with gentle, body-safe ingredients like coconut water and cranberry extract, so they cleanse and refresh without disrupting your balance.

No. Freshies are designed to be gentle and effective for anyone who wants to feel clean and refreshed. While they’re pH-balanced for vaginal health, they can be used anywhere on the body, by any gender.

Freshies have a light vanilla scent from natural fragrance. It’s there to leave you feeling fresh and confident, without being overpowering. The formula is gentle, body-safe, and pH-balanced, so the fragrance won’t disrupt your vaginal health.

Freshies are made with soft, durable material that’s gentle on your body but not designed to break down in plumbing. Flushing any wipes - yes, even those that say they are flushable - can cause clogs and damage to pipes, so we recommend tossing them in the trash after use.

Freshies are made with gentle, body-safe ingredients like coconut water and cranberry extract, which are known for their soothing and nourishing properties. Many people prone to irritation use them without issue, but every body is different. If you’re especially sensitive or experience frequent UTIs, it’s always a good idea to check with your healthcare provider before adding anything new to your routine.

Yes. Freshies are safe to use on your toys for a quick clean. They’re made with gentle, body-safe ingredients, so they work well for wiping down your Vibez in between washes. For a deeper clean, we still recommend washing your toys with warm water and a mild soap.

Freshies are individually wrapped to keep them clean, discreet, and easy to take on the go. A tub may seem convenient, but once it’s opened, wipes can dry out and lose their effectiveness. Individual wrapping ensures every wipe stays fresh and ready when you need it.

Most body washes are made with harsh surfactants and heavy fragrances that can throw off your natural vaginal pH. Be There In Five is pH-balanced and made with gentle, body-safe ingredients that cleanse without irritation. It’s designed specifically for your intimate skin, so you can feel fresh and supported every day.

Freshies are perfect for quick refreshes on the go, while Be There In Five is designed for a deeper clean in the shower. They work best together- Freshies for convenience, and Be There In Five as part of your daily routine.

Be There In Five is pH-balanced and formulated with gentle ingredients, so it’s safe to use every day. You can make it part of your regular shower routine to feel clean and refreshed without irritation.

Be There In Five has a light vanilla scent from natural fragrance. It’s designed to leave you feeling fresh and confident without being overpowering. The formula is gentle and pH-balanced, so the fragrance won’t disrupt your vaginal health.

Many traditional feminine washes are made with harsh ingredients that can cause more harm than good, which is why some people say water is the safest choice. Be There In Five is different. It’s pH-balanced and made with gentle, body-safe ingredients, so it supports your intimate health instead of disrupting it. If you prefer using just water, that’s completely fine, but if you want an added layer of freshness, Be There In Five is a safe option.

Yes. Be There In Five is gentle and pH-balanced, so it’s safe for intimate areas as well as the rest of your body. Many people use it as their everyday body wash for a clean, fresh feel from head to toe.

Both. I Cum First was designed to be versatile, so you can enjoy it solo or with a partner. Its compact shape makes it easy to use during sex, and while it’s great for clitoral stimulation, you can also explore light penetration if that feels good for you.

I Cum First is designed primarily for external use, but it’s safe to explore internally if that feels good for you. The body-safe silicone makes it gentle enough for penetration, though most people love it most for clitoral stimulation.

It’s safe to use a vibrator as often as you’d like. Vibrators don’t cause permanent desensitization. If things ever feel less sensitive, a short break is usually all it takes. If you want to learn more about the stigma associated with vibrator use, and why it is misleading, you can read up here.

Start by framing it as something you want to explore together, not something that’s missing. You can say you’re curious to see how a vibrator might make things even more fun or feel different for both of you. Remind them that it’s about adding to your connection, not replacing anything. Keeping the conversation open and positive makes it easier for your partner to get excited about trying it with you. Want more support on how to have this convo? Find other tips & tricks here. 

No. While I Cum First was designed with clitoral stimulation in mind, anyone can enjoy it. Its size and shape make it easy to explore both external and internal stimulation, so it can be a great addition for all bodies.

Yes. Vibez is made with medical-grade silicone and ABS plastic, both of which are body-safe, non-porous, and free from phthalates. That means it’s safe for your most sensitive areas and easy to keep clean.

This vibe comes with a prong-style charger. Insert the tip into the small divot marked “DC” on the opposite side of the power button. Check out this video to see how it’s done. We recommend charging for at least one hour before your first session for the best experience.

Yes. Vibez is water-resistant, so it’s safe to use in the shower. Just avoid fully submerging it in water, like in a bath or hot tub.

Start slow and focus on what feels good. Turn Vibez on at the lowest setting and explore external areas first, like the nipples, inner thighs or clitoris. Once you’re comfortable, you can experiment with different vibration patterns or try light internal play. There’s no right or wrong way to use it, just listen to your body and go at your own pace.

Wash your Vibez immediately after use with toy cleaner or warm water and mild soap. Dry it completely and store it in the travel case for safekeeping.

Yes. Vibez is safe to use with Love Oil and Shag Juice. The only one to avoid is Dew Më, since silicone lube can break down silicone toys over time.

Both. Disco Stick was designed for G-spot stimulation and is great for solo play. You can also use it with a partner for extra stimulation during foreplay.

Disco Stick was primarily designed for internal G-spot stimulation, but you can also use it externally or explore other kinds of penetration. It’s safe and versatile, so you can experiment to see what feels best for you.

It’s safe to use a vibrator as often as you’d like. Vibrators don’t cause permanent desensitization. If things ever feel less sensitive, a short break is usually all it takes. If you want to learn more about the stigma associated with vibrator use, and why it is misleading, you can read up here.

Yes, because they’re designed to give you different kinds of stimulation. I Cum First is smaller and focused on clitoral play, while Disco Stick is curved for internal G-spot stimulation. Having both lets you explore more sensations, solo or with a partner.

Yes. Disco Stick is safe to use with Love Oil and Shag Juice. The only one to avoid is Dew Më, since silicone lube can break down silicone toys over time.

Disco Stick comes with a magnetic charger. Just align the two metal contacts on the back until they click into place. For the best experience, charge between each use so it’s always ready for maximum O’s.

Wash Disco Stick after every use with a toy cleaner or warm water and mild soap. Dry it completely and store it in the travel pouch to keep it clean and protected.

Get your Disco Stick going by holding the power button for 2–3 seconds. Tap the button to explore the different vibration settings until you find your favorite.

Mushroom Vibez is a great first toy because it’s small, simple, and easy to use. Its rounded head and gentle vibrations make it less intimidating than many vibrators, while still giving you plenty of options to explore. If you’re curious about clitoral-focused stimulation, I Cum First is another popular choice, while Disco Stick is designed for internal G-spot play. Want a little more guidance? Check out our Vibrator Buying Guide to see which one fits you best.

That’s completely normal. Start with Mushroom Vibez on the lowest setting and explore external areas first, like the nipples, inner thighs or clitoris. Take your time, use lube if you’d like, and focus on what feels good rather than what you think should happen. There’s no right or wrong way, just go slow and let your body guide you.

No. Mushroom Vibez is great for solo exploration, but it also works well with a partner. Its small size and rounded shape make it easy to use during foreplay or to add extra stimulation during sex.

Mushroom Vibez uses a magnetic charger. Attach the charger to the two metal contacts on the bottom of the toy and charge for at least 1 hour before your first session. After use, wash with toy cleaner or warm water and mild soap, dry thoroughly, and store your Shroom in a safe place.

No. Mushroom Vibez was designed to be beginner-friendly, and anyone can enjoy it. Its rounded head and gentle vibrations make it easy to explore externally, so it can be a fun addition for all bodies.

Hold the power button for 2–3 seconds to turn Mushroom Vibez on. Tap the button to cycle through the different vibration settings until you find the one you like.

Yes. Mushroom Vibez is safe to use with Love Oil and Shag Juice. The only one to avoid is Dew Më, since silicone lube can break down silicone toys over time.