In the hustle and bustle of daily life, maintaining a fulfilling and vibrant sex life can often take a backseat in long-term relationships. However, Lauryn Bosstick, the visionary behind The Skinny Confidential and a Co-Founder of Woo More Play, shares her invaluable insights on how to keep the flames of passion burning bright. Through this candid conversation, Lauryn shares her and her husband, Michael, Dear Media Founder, and Woo More Play Co-Founder, keys to evolving their sex life while raising two toddlers and being successful entrepreneurs. 

Lauryn Spills the Tea 

• How do you ensure your sex life evolves alongside the changing aspects of your marriage and your changing interests? 

The longer you’ve been with someone the nicer it is to have sex with them because you get used to each other’s bodies. I like to keep things fun and spicy by mixing it up in the bedroom with vibrators and trying new things. But my favorite is when we’re away on a trip, just us, no kids and we have the freedom to do what we want whenever we want. I’m obsessed with Woo Vibez and I use it by myself and with my husband. It’s so much fun and the best vibrator I’ve ever had. The Disco Stick is fun too. I’ve been playing around with that one too and it’s just as good, just different. 

Keeping things spicy also means being creative in the day-to-day. Send a sexy text, have a quickie while the kids are sleeping- it’s important to keep up with the little things. 

An open dialogue around sex helps you stay evolved and Michael and I talk about sex a lot. You have to be vocal because no one is a mind reader. 

• Our days are busy and often sex becomes a low priority for couples in long-term relationships. How do you prioritize actually having sex in your relationship?

It’s not a low priority for us, we actually put it at a high priority. It takes away stress and irritability and re-establishes connection. We spend so much time working on our fitness, health, and career, we should be putting just as much effort into our sex lives too. 

You have to make it a priority and we do that especially when we’re away from our kids. We make the most of it. It’s important I always keep things sexy with Michael because we’re in business together, we raise kids together and our sex life and connection is an important part of that foundation. 

• You are the routine queen! What does your "foreplay routine" look like? (For example, it starts in the morning, not 10 minutes after hopping into bed). 

I like a smack on the ass, I don’t like someone to just shove it in. Put some elbow grease into it, be creative, and show some effort. Send some fun texts, and give bedroom eyes throughout the day like you know what’ll happen later. It’s like a massage- you’re not going to get super deep right away, you’re going to warm up to it. And don’t forget the tits! 

• What are your top tips for confidence? In the bedroom, with your body, in your sexual interests and desires? 

Confidence is really sex and such a turn-on for men and women. So many men have told me that they’ve been with the most gorgeous, perfect woman but they’re not confident and it turned them off right away. So no matter what, whether you’re on your period, having an off day, you’re tired, having a bad hair day, just exude confidence. Fake it til you make it. When I was ten months pregnant I didn’t feel confident at all, but Michael probably didn’t know that because I just acted like I was. And let's be honest, men don’t always think with their brains. 

Fun tidbits:

• Marry, Fuck, Kill: Vibrators, roleplay, quickies - marry vibrator, fuck roleplay, kill quickies. 
• What is your best-kept bedroom secret? Don’t forget the balls.
• How can we manipulate our husbands to manscape? Gift them the Manscaped trimmer and drop hints about how their dick looks bigger when they’re groomed. 

Your Sex Life Matters!

As Lauryn Bosstick eloquently illustrates, prioritizing intimacy and communication is the key to nurturing a thriving sex life while in a long-term relationship. By embracing creativity, incorporating new experiences, and having open dialogue, couples can reignite their spark of passion and deepen their connection. At Woo More Play we urge you to go on a journey of exploration and intimacy that elevates your relationship in ways you never thought possible.