You best believe oral sex is an art form! Whether you’re warming up for a full-blown session or letting oral steal the entire spotlight, there’s a certain finesse to making it unforgettable. But don’t worry, this isn’t some boring sex-ed lecture. WOO is ready to help you turn up the heat, build connection, and give you the creative toolset to perform oral sex that will blow more than their mind. *wink wink*

Here’s the tea.

#1 Ask, And You Shall Receive

The secret sauce to amazing oral sex? Communication. It’s hot, it’s respectful, and it saves you from guessing.

• Start the Conversation: Ask things like, “What turns you on the most?” or “How do you like to be teased?” These questions set the tone for an experience they’ll rave about.
• Encourage Feedback: While you’re in the act, try a sexy “Tell me if you want more of this.” It shows you’re paying attention and makes the whole experience feel more personal.

New to dirty talk? Here’s how to set the mood!

#2 Freshen Up For The Occasion

Confidence starts with feeling clean and comfortable. Before firing away with your best skills, take a quick trip to the bathroom to prep yourself and get ready to impress. Grab some intimate wipes (like Freshies) or give a quick splash of water for an instant refresh that leaves you feeling sexy and confident.

When you feel good, your partner feels it, too.

#3 Nail The Pace And Technique

Oral sex isn’t a race. The pace you set and the techniques you use can completely change the game.

• Start Slow: Begin with soft, deliberate movements to build anticipation. Think of it as teasing your partner into submission.
• Try Edging: Bring them to the brink of climax, then slow down or stop. This technique intensifies the eventual release, turning orgasming into a seriously sexy game that quite literally leaves them on the edge.
• Adjust to Their Reactions: Pay attention to how their body responds and moans to tweak your speed or pressure to match what they love.

Mastering the rhythm is what separates good oral from legendary oral.

#6 Keep It Interesting

Not everybody wants the same move on repeat (unless it’s on the verge of climax; in that case, you’ve gotta keep a good thing going). Changing things up is the spice of life. 

Pleasing Him

• Try slow, deliberate licks on the frenulum (the ultra-sensitive area under the head), then switch to faster, more rhythmic movements.
• Play around with licking techniques like swirling the head with your tongue or hard, intentional licks on the frenulum.
• Try to avoid teeth! (unless they like that)
• Relax your jaw to make it easier to deep-throat

Pleasing Her

• Alternate between circular motions and gentle suction on the clitoris. Adjust the speed and pressure based on her reactions.
• Slow and sensual can sometimes be more intense than actually upping the speed.
• Feel free to explore all the vaginal zones with your tongue.
• When you mix things up, you keep them guessing—and craving more.

#4 Alternate Between Mouth And Hands

Want to take oral sex from “good” to “oh-my-god”? Your hands are a neat little trick. Not only does it give you a chance to relax your jaw for a sec, but it also makes oral last a whole lot longer! Who doesn’t love that? 

• For Him: Focus your mouth on the tip while your hand strokes the shaft. Alternate between the two for a variety of sensations that’ll leave him weak in the knees.
• For Her: Combine tongue flicks on her clitoris with light internal stimulation. The combo of oral and hands will send her over the edge in the best way possible.

Switching things up with your hands is likely an experience they won’t want to end.

#5 Add Foreplay To The Foreplay

Oral sex doesn’t have to start right away. Build anticipation with a little slap or gentle touch that makes your partner beg for more.

• Tease Your Partner: Kiss their neck, thighs, and stomach. Take your time exploring their body. Pro tip: save the most sensitive spots for last.
• Use Your Hands: Trace your fingers along their erogenous zones while you whisper how much you want them.

The longer you tease, the more intense the payoff.

#7 Make It Fun

Oral sex doesn’t have to be a serious, silent affair. The more fun you’re having, the more they’ll enjoy it too.

• Laugh It Off: If something clumsy or unexpected happens, laugh together. It breaks the tension and keeps things playful.
• Flirt While You’re At It: Whisper things like, “I love the way you taste” or “You’re driving me wild.” It boosts confidence and deepens intimacy.
• Introduce Other Elements: Tasty lube that tastes like cupcakes, sex toys, and even food play will up the ante. See why we call oral sex an art form?

When you’re both relaxed and smiling, it’s easier to let go and focus on the pleasure.

#8 Safe Is Always Sexy

Okay, we did promise no sex-ed, but we just thought you should know that while oral sex might seem low-risk, staying safe is still essential. If you’re unsure about STI statuses, use protection to keep things worry-free.

• Use Protection: Flavored condoms and dental dams are the sexier options for making oral sex safer.
• No Conversation? No Problem: If you don’t feel comfortable discussing sexual health yet, just default to using protection. Confidence comes from knowing you’re taking care of each other.

We believe in the motto that safe sex doesn’t ruin the moment—it makes it better.

Final Thoughts On The Art Of Oral Sex

The art of oral sex is all about understanding your partner’s needs, keeping things playful, and using techniques that leave them craving more. By mixing up your pace, trying new things, and adding variety, you’re quite literally creating art.

So, grab your partner, perfect your rhythm, and show them that oral sex can be so much more than they imagined. They’ll thank you—over and over again.