The concept of the love languages was introduced by Dr. Gary Chapman in his bestselling book, The 5 Love Languages. So, is sex one of them? (asking for a friend)

No, not really, but luckily, we’re here to make all of them *spicy.*

Love languages are all about understanding how we express love and feel loved in return. Whether your partner’s thing is words of affirmation, physical touch, or simply receiving gifts, there’s a way to kick it up a notch with these sexy ideas.

Words of Affirmation

What It Means

Words matter—big time. If your partner lights up when you compliment them, write love notes, or send encouraging texts, words of affirmation are their love language. They crave verbal reminders of your love and admiration.

What It Means in a Sexual Sense

In the bedroom, words of affirmation transform into dirty talk, steamy sexts, and verbal praise. Telling your partner how incredible they look, feel, or perform can really change the game.

5 Sexy Gift Ideas for Words of Affirmation

1. A Dirty Talk Game
A card game filled with prompts and challenges to help you spice up your verbal play.

2. Personalized Sexy Love Notes
Write intimate messages for your partner to discover throughout the day—on their pillow, in their car, or even taped to a vibrator.

3. An Audio Erotic Story Subscription
Send them sultry audio stories that’ll get their imagination (and libido) going.

4. Custom Engraved Jewelry
A necklace or bracelet engraved with something risque like ”You’re Mine.”

5. Sexy Compliment Jar
Fill a jar with sexy, confidence-boosting notes for them to pull from whenever they need a pick-me-up—or a turn-on.

Quality Time

What It Means

If their love language is quality time, they value undivided attention. It’s all about spending meaningful moments together — no phones, no distractions, just the two of you fully present.

What It Means in a Sexual Sense

In the bedroom, quality time love language means prioritizing long, intimate sessions and giving each other your undivided attention. It’s about exploring each other’s desires and making the experience unforgettable.

5 Sexy Gift Ideas for Quality Time

1. Couples’ Massage Kit
Bring the spa home with oils and candles for an intimate massage session. Bonus: use WOO’s Coconut Love Oil for extra glide.

2. A Sensual Board Game
Pick a game that challenges you both to open up emotionally and physically.

3. A Romantic Staycation
Book a hotel for a change of scenery. Add some extra spice with a G-spot vibrator like the Vibez Disco Stick.

4. A No-Tech Date Night Kit
Include wine, sexy conversation starters, and a playlist for an unplugged, uninterrupted evening.

5. Tantric Sex Class
Take a course together (there are plenty online) to deepen your connection and extend your intimate moments.

Physical Touch

What It Means

The physical touch love language thrives on affectionate, skin-to-skin connection—think holding hands, cuddling, general intimacy, and (our favorite,) sex.

What It Means in a Sexual Sense

This love language translates effortlessly into the bedroom. It’s all about heightened physical connection: massages, exploring erogenous zones, and intense touch-based play.

5 Sexy Gift Ideas for Physical Touch

1. A Couples’ Massage
If you want to gift them something memorable, this is the one. There is nothing better than a day of pure relaxation followed by a night of wild sex.

2. Feather Teaser
Light, teasing touches with a feather heighten anticipation and sensitivity. If you’re into BDSM, you could throw in a whip, too.

3. New Bedding
Make every touch and movement luxurious with silk sheets (or anything with a really high thread count and premium materials).

4. Couples’ Sensory Play Box
Include blindfolds, restraints, and body-safe candles for exploring physical sensations together. Throw in some pH-balanced Freshies Intimate Wipes for whatever mess you’re gonna make. 😉

5. Weighted Blanket for Cuddling
A cozy blanket that’s great for cuddling but also creates the feeling of being embraced even when you’re not around.

Acts of Service

What It Means

This love language is all about action. If your partner feels loved when you help with tasks or go the extra mile to make their life easier, acts of service love language is their jam.

What It Means in a Sexual Sense

Acts of service in the bedroom mean setting the mood and taking charge of your partner’s pleasure. It’s about showing, not just telling, how much you care.

5 Sexy Gift Ideas for Acts of Service

1. A DIY Coupon Book
Include “I’ll handle foreplay tonight” or “Your fantasy, your way” for redeemable favors.

2. A Bedroom Surprise
This classic move really means a lot to those who have an act of service love language. Simply decorate their bedroom with candles, rose petals, and soft lighting, and watch them light up with happiness. There’s no doubt that you’ll enjoy some romantic action soon after.

3. Pre-Planned Adventure Date
Handle all the details—from their outfit to the car playlist—and take them somewhere beyond the norm, like a sunset cruise, horseriding, or even bungee jumping.

4. Customized Bath Gift Box
Prepare a relaxing bath with sensual oils, bath bombs, a bottle of wine, and soft towels. Adding some Coconut Love Oil to the mix is the perfect hint that you want to enjoy this bath together.

5. A Sex Toy
Surprise them with something that will heighten their pleasure even more than before (like a clitoral vibrator) and please them like you mean it.

Receiving Gifts

What It Means

A receiving gifts love language means thoughtful presents make your partner feel loved. It’s less about the price tag and more about the thought and intention behind the gift.

What It Means in a Sexual Sense

In the bedroom, this means giving intimate, meaningful presents—like toys, lingerie, or custom experiences—that show you’ve been paying attention to their desires.

1. A Pleasure Box
For a sensual surprise that they’ll never get bored of, the Get Dirty, Get Clean bundle the sex care kit made dreams. With our signature oil lube, a G-spot vibrator with 7 speeds, and some intimate wipes for after care it’s the gift that keeps on giving (and that’s their love language right?).

2. Luxury Lingerie
Splurging on some sexy underwear is never a bad idea. Better yet, find a pair that you can personalize with your face printed on it or embroidering “you’re mine.” They’ll definitely make use of it (and you get to see them looking hot AF).

3. A Love Story Scrap Book
Get sentimental by writing and illustrating your love story—don’t forget to comment on how sexy they are, or how you love it when they say your name (or anything subtly seductive).

4. A Personalized Wine Bottle
Nothing says sexy like an aphrodisiac gift. Print out a custom label and paste it on their favorite wine. Don’t forget to add a box of chocolates!

5. A Lazy Sofa Bean Bag
Besides having an extra location to *get it on,* this one is perfect for the homebody partner who likes to get cuddled up and cozy.

Speak Their Language (And To Their Body)

Love languages are also a massive influence in the sex department. Whether it’s through sexy words, intimate touches, or meaningful actions, tailoring your Valentine’s Day gifts (or any other gift) to their love language ensures they’ll feel seen, and appreciated (and, in this case, turned on).

So pick the perfect gift for their love language and make this occasion for the books. With these sexy gifts for love languages, you’ll have your partner saying, “I love you” and a whole lot more.