Welcome to the best decision you've made all year. Start with a full charge (at least 1 hour), then hold the power button for 2–3 seconds to turn on. Cumquat will start on Pulsation 1. Apply Love Oil generously and place the circular opening directly over your clit, pressing gently to create a seal. That seal is what makes the suction work, so make sure it feels right before you start. Tap through the patterns, start low, and give yourself time to explore. Try different angles and don't rush, everyone is different. You'll know when you find the 'oh fuck!' spot. Once you do, hold it there. Trust us.

Because they're not the same thing. Your vibrator buzzes against your clit, Cumquat wraps around it and sucks. It's a completely different sensation, closer to oral sex than anything a traditional vibrator can deliver. The suction creates deeper, fuller stimulation without the direct friction that can sometimes feel like too much. Think of it less like an upgrade and more like a whole new category of pleasure. You don't have to choose, but once you try Cumquat, you'll understand why both have a place on your nightstand.

Cumquat is best for solo play. Its design is built for clit stimulation and the suction works best when you're in control of the positioning and angles. That said, if you and your partner want to bring it into the mix, go for it. Just know it's a little trickier to navigate with two people involved. Our advice? Get comfortable with it solo first. Then share the wealth.

Use it as often as you'd like. Cumquat won't permanently desensitize you, that's a myth we're happy to put to rest. If things ever feel less sensitive, a short break is all it takes to reset. Want to go deeper on this? We wrote about it right here.

Cumquat comes with a magnetic charging stand. Just set it on the stand, let the contacts click into place, and look for the indicator light to confirm it's charging. We recommend at least 1 hour before each session so you never have to stop mid-moment.