Mushroom Vibez was made for both. Its small, rounded shape is easy to use during foreplay or to add extra stimulation during sex. Cumquat is best for solo play. Clit suction works best when you can take your time finding the right angle and seal. That said, if you and your partner want to experiment with it together, we fully support that energy. Just know it may take a little more coordination than your average Tuesday night.

If you've never used a toy before, The Pleasure Harvest is actually a great place to start. Mushroom Vibez eases you in- it's small, simple, and its rounded head and gentle vibrations make it far less intimidating than most vibrators, while still giving you plenty to explore. Cumquat is your next level- a clit sucker that delivers the kind of orgasms that make you wonder what you've been doing this whole time. If you want even more options, I Cum First is another great choice for clitoral stimulation, and Disco Stick is designed for internal G-spot play. Not sure where to start? Our Vibrator Buying Guide will point you in the right direction.

Use it as often as you'd like. Cumquat won't permanently desensitize you, that's a myth we're happy to put to rest. If things ever feel less sensitive, a short break is all it takes to reset. Want to go deeper on this? We wrote about it right here.

We recommend Coconut Love Oil. It's smooth, long-lasting, and makes using your toys even more pleasurable. Apply it to your skin, the toys themselves, or both. It reduces friction and makes every sensation feel even better.

Charging: Both toys come with a magnetic charger. For Cumquat, place it on the magnetic charging stand and look for the LED indicator light to confirm it's charging. For Mushroom, let the contacts click into place on the bottom of the stem and look for a similar indicator light. We recommend charging at least 1 hour before each session.

Cleaning: Wash both toys with warm water and mild soap or a toy-safe cleaner after every use. Dry thoroughly before storing in a safe place.