Valentine’s Day is the perfect excuse to turn up the heat, explore your wild side, and treat your partner (and yourself) to something irresistibly sexy. From intimate essentials to indulgent experiences, this list of 65 ideas celebrates love, lust, and everything in between. Bonus: we’ve sprinkled in some of WOO’s favorite must-haves to make this Valentine’s Day your hottest one yet.

Sexy Valentine’s Day Gifts for Him

1. Sexy Coupons

Hand over control with a custom coupon book filled with sexy favors: sensual massages, oral sessions, or “choose any fantasy” passes. Throw in some vanilla ones too, like “breakfast in bed” and “I’ll do the laundry.”

2. A Lap Dance

Surprise him with a private show. Dim the lights, cue the music, and show off your sexiest moves. Bonus points if you add a costume.

3. A Romantic Sensual Massage Kit

Pair massage oils with candles and create the ultimate at-home spa experience. Work your hands on his tension and build anticipation for what’s next.

4. Boxers That Leave Little to the Imagination

Sexy gifts for Valentine's day don’t need to be boring. Give him something playful, cheeky, or downright revealing. Maybe he’ll laugh, maybe it will turn you on. Either way, it’s a win.

5. Sexy Photo Shoot

Book a boudoir photoshoot and gift your partner a sensual photo album that’s just for their eyes. Or maybe just design a raunchy poster of yourself on Canva and frame it. It’s def a keepsake they’ll love.

6. A Personalized Certificate

Everyone deserves an award, so why not gift him a certificate of achievement for being the sexiest man ever? Don’t forget to frame it!

Sexy Valentine's Day Gifts For Her

7. Vibez Disco Stick G-Spot Vibrator

Let her discover the magic of the Vibez Disco Stick, a G-spot vibrator that hits all the right spots. Whether she’s solo or paired up, this is a gift that guarantees fireworks.

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8. Massage Candle

Forget diamonds: massages are a girl's best friend.  Gift a candle that melts into warm massage oil, setting the stage for a sensual massage that leads to more.

9. Erotic Book

Gift her a collection of steamy stories you can read together—or she’ll read under the covers when she misses you.

10. Write A Naughty Love Letter

But make it spicy. Share all the reasons you love her—and what you want to do to her later.

The Sexiest Valentine’s Day Ideas

11. Have a Sexy Dinner

Skip the fancy restaurant. Set the table at home, dress in lingerie or just a robe, or absolutely nothing. Better yet, serve some aphrodisiacs.

12. Try a New Sex Toy Together

Whether it’s a G-spot vibe or a couples’ ring, experimenting with toys can (and will) add an exciting twist to your night.

13. Explore a Sensory Play Kit

Add some mystery to the evening with blindfolds, feathers, and massage wax to tease and heighten every touch.

14. Take a Valentine’s Bath Together

Transform your bathroom into a spa with candles, bubbles, and sensual touches. Bring in the Coconut Love Oil for some extra slip and slide.

15. Set Up a Sex Room

For the adventurous couples, incorporate soft restraints, under-the-bed straps, or light bondage tools to create your own seductive den.

Valentine’s Day Gifts for Yourself (Yes, You Deserve It)

16. Vibez I Cum First Clitoral Vibrator & Travel Case

Treat yourself to the ultimate in self-care with this powerful clitoral vibrator. Compact, discreet, and delightfully intense, it’s perfect for solo sessions or foreplay with your partner.

17. Buy Yourself Lingerie

Nothing says self-love like slipping into something stunning. Take some time to pamper yourself—you’re worth it.

18. A Self-Love Date Night

Order takeout, grab a glass of wine, and spend the night indulging in whatever makes you feel sexy—whether that’s a steamy movie or playing with your favorite vibe.

Intimate Essentials

19. Freshies Intimate Wipes

Perfect for a quick refresh before—or after—the fun begins, Freshies Wipes keep them feeling confident and clean. Plus, they’re pH-balanced! adds to gift basket

20. Be There in Five Intimate Wash

Gift your partner (or yourself) this pH-balanced intimate wash for a clean, fresh start to Valentine’s Day activities. Silky and lightweight, our intimate wash helps to set the best intentions even when you have the naughtiest.

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Non-Conventional Gifts for a Playful Sex

21. Erotic Advent Calendar

Fill a calendar with small, sexy surprises leading up to Valentine’s Day or your next special night. You can also snag one off Etsy!

22. Plan a Scavenger Hunt

Leave flirty notes and naughty surprises around the house for your partner to find. End it with a big bang in the bedroom.

23. Watch an Erotic Movie Together

Is a dinner date too expensive? Netflix and chill to something sensual to spark the desire fire.

24. Try New Sex Positions

Gift a “guide to positions” book and spend the night testing out your top picks.

25. Install A Mirror On The Ceiling

Are you both into voyeurism or exhibitionism (like to watch/being watched)? Then this one is a big YES for them.

Sexy Valentine’s Day Gifts For Adventurous Couples

26. A Couples’ Adventure Calender

Plan a month of activities like going to the aquarium, museum hopping, a sunset cruise, and more to show the love far beyond Valentine’s Day (and get lucky on those days, too).

27. Couples’ Box

Create your own sex box with items like a couple’s game, blindfold, massage oil, and whatever else gets them going.

28. Sexy Dice Game

Add some unpredictability to your night. With each roll, you’ll be guided to a different sexy action.

29. Experiment with Something New

Make this Valentine’s Day all about teasing and pleasing with this list of new things to try.

30. An Adjustable Spreader Bar

For couples who want to try something new, a spreader bar adds a whole new level to bedroom adventures. This bondage essential is a bar that goes between your arms or legs to spread them apart.

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31. Coconut Love Oil

This silky-smooth love oil will have you both slipping and sliding in the best way. Made with natural coconut oil, it’s perfect for massages, foreplay, and beyond. Bonus: it tastes like cupcakes.

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32. Create a Sex Playlist

Put together a playlist of songs that make you both feel sexy and let it play after your Valentine’s Day activities.

33. Remote-Controlled Sex Toy

Take public teasing to the next level with a discreet, wearable vibrator controlled via an app. 

34. DIY “Open When…” Letters

Write a series of steamy “open when…” letters, such as “open when you’re in the mood” or “open when you need to fantasize about me.” Seal them in envelopes for your partner to open whenever they need a sexy pick-me-up.

35. Personalized Robe

A luxurious robe with their initials embroidered adds a touch of class to post-play lounging.

36. Glow-in-the-Dark Body Paint

Get playful and messy with body-safe, glow-in-the-dark paint. Let your creativity run wild.

37. Shag Juice

Turn up the slickness with Shag Juice—your go-to lube for natural, long-lasting moisture. Because nothing says sexy like an effortless glide during your heated sessions.

 

 

38. A Jar of Naughty Promises

Fill a jar with handwritten notes offering different spicy promises—think “30-minute massage,” “your favorite oral technique,” or “a roleplay session.”

39. Custom Pillowcases

Gift soft, satin pillowcases embroidered with something flirty like “His Side” and “Her Side” or “King” and “Queen.” Or even your pet names for each other!

40. Feather Teaser

Simple yet seductive, this feather teaser is great for light touches and exploring every inch of their body.

41. Satin Bedsheet Set

Transform your bed into a luxurious love nest with silky-smooth sheets that feel amazing while you get it on.

42. Bedside Toy Organizer

You know what’s sexy? Organization (If your partner is a little OCD). They’ll appreciate keeping their toys and accessories handy with a discreet bedside organizer.

43. Nipple Clamps

A bold addition to your Valentine’s plans, these adjustable clamps bring just the right amount of edge to your play.

44. A Subscription to Erotic Audio Stories

Introduce them to a world of sensual, narrated stories you can listen to together (or when they’re alone) to build anticipation.

45. Satin Bondage Kit

Soft and inviting, this kit includes straps and a blindfold for playful restraint and power play.

46. Aphrodisiac Cooking Class

Find a chef who takes requests and book a class to learn how to cook with aphrodisiac ingredients—then head home to enjoy the meal and the aftermath.

47. Sexy Truth or Dare Game

Challenge each other with risqué truths and adventurous dares to keep the energy sexy and exciting.

48. Clone a Willy

This hilarious yet kinky gift is for the both of you. Have him clone his D in silicone (just search Clone a Willy to find the kit) so you can enjoy him even when he’s not around.

49. Heart-Shaped Waffle Maker

Foodies will love this one. Just make sure to give them waffles in bed occasionally and treat them like the King or Queen they are. Then, follow it with the next gift.

50. Breakfast in Bed (With a Twist)

Serve their favorite meal in nothing but lingerie or a silk robe. Let them eat. Then eat them. 😉 

51. A Staycation Package

Surprise them with a night at a fancy local hotel or Airbnb to change up the scenery.

52. Pajamas

There’s nothing like luxurious pajamas that feel just as good as they look.

53. Sexy Scratch-Off Poster

Get crafty with a poster filled with spicy challenges you can scratch off and complete together over time.

54. Couples’ Strip Poker Set

Play your cards right with a game of strip poker designed to keep things flirty (and get you naked).

55. Kama Sutra Guidebook

Gift them the ultimate guide to new sex positions and techniques made for sexual connection like no other.

56. Bedroom Escape Room Game

Create a sexy escape room scenario with clues that lead to intimate rewards. A playful spin on Valentine’s Day.

57. Heart-Shaped Paddle

Playfully explore power dynamics with a whip or paddle to up the intensity in your bedroom antics.

58. Love Map Print

Create a custom map showing where you met, had your first kiss, or another romantic milestone, paired with a sexy message like “Let’s make more memories.”

59. Sensual Bath Soak

Gift a luxurious bath soak or bath bomb that sets the stage for a shared, intimate experience.

60. A Blanket for Pillow Talk

Gift a soft, oversized blanket designed for cozy, intimate cuddles. Perfect for cooling down after the action.

61. Couples’ Puzzle with a Risqué Image

Complete a custom puzzle together that reveals a raunchy image of you (or a cute image of you together).

62. A Custom-Scented Perfume

Design a signature scent for your partner that leaves them thinking of you.

63. A Velvet Love Seat for the Bedroom

Upgrade your furniture game for an extra location for intimacy and exploration. And no, in this case, your face does not count as a ‘loveseat.’

64. Satin Gloves for Teasing Touches

Slide on satin gloves to add a unique and sensual touch to foreplay.

65. Personalized Lingerie

Surprise them with a curated pair of undies with your face on them or a simple “Mine” embroidered on the front. 

Final Thoughts on Sexy Valentine’s Day Gifts

These 65 sexy Valentine’s Day gifts are ready to add extra love, sex, and magic to you and your partner’s life. Feel free to bookmark this list for all future V-day celebrations to keep things extra spicy. With love, WOO.