Let’s skip the awkward silence and get straight to the good stuff.

The world of sex toys for men is no longer some shadowy corner of the internet or a whispered aisle in the back of a novelty store. It’s out, proud, and, frankly, overdue for its moment in the spotlight. From prostate massagers to pocket pussies, male sex toys are redefining how men of all sexualities connect to pleasure, solo or with a partner.

Whether you’re a curious newbie or a seasoned connoisseur, this guide is your permission slip to explore, experiment, and maybe even moan a little louder.

Key Takeaways

• Male sex toys cover a wide range of sensations, from penetrative to external, anal, and beyond.
  

• The right toy can improve pleasure, stamina, and sexual confidence.
  

• There are specific toys designed for anal sex, penis stimulation, and even full-body experiences.
  

• Lubrication is key: use high-quality, body-safe lubes like our oil-based Love Oil or water-based Shag Juice for the smoothest rides.
  

• External vibrators and internal vibrators aren’t just for women; they’re amazing for male pleasure too (perfect for perineum and anal pleasure).

1. The Pocket Pussy (AKA Stroker, Sleeve, Or Masturbator)

Let’s start with a classic.

The pocket pussy has one job: simulate penetrative sex. But don’t let the name fool you, these come in all shapes and sensations. Some are discreet and travel-friendly. 

Others are designed to mimic real anatomy (mouth, vagina, butt) with soft internal textures that pulse, twist, or even vibrate.

Many men say this is the closest sensation to partnered sex. Add a few pumps of oil-based lube (like WOO’s Love Oil for a smooth finish, but check compatibility), and you’ve got a whole new solo ritual.

WOO Tip: Try temperature play. Warm it up in water beforehand. Thank us later.

2. Cock Rings: Pleasure, Prolonged

Cock rings aren’t just jewelry for your junk. These stretchy or firm bands are designed to restrict blood flow to the penis, keeping erections firmer and long-lasting.

Many rings include a vibrating motor for added stimulation. Some that target the wearer, others designed for partner play. Great for anyone looking to spice up foreplay or extend performance.

Materials vary: silicone, metal, and leather. Choose based on comfort and confidence level. Always lube it up before slipping it on. Trust.

3. Anal Toys And Prostate Massagers

Ah yes, the hidden pleasure zone.

The prostate (aka the male G-spot) is located a few inches inside the anus and, when stimulated properly, can produce incredibly intense orgasms. We’re talking full-body, soul-leaving-your-body kind of intensity.

Anal toys range from beginner-friendly butt plugs to vibrating prostate massagers that hit the P-spot with surgical precision.

Start small. Use lube generously. Love Oil has a coconut-oil base that feels incredible and is great for slower, more intentional anal play (just skip it with latex condoms; we have a water-based lube for that). For internal stimulation, try an internal vibrator. It targets internal pressure points beautifully (AKA, your P-Spot).

And if you're worried about stigma? Don't be. You're stimulating a part of your body with a high concentration of nerve endings. That's not taboo, that's smart.

4. Penis Pumps: Form Meets Function

Yes, they exist beyond the punchlines.

Penis pumps work by creating a vacuum around the penis, drawing blood into the tissue and temporarily enlarging it. Some use manual pumping, others are battery-powered. Regular use can enhance erection quality and even help with mild erectile dysfunction.

While not a "pleasure toy" in the traditional sense, many men enjoy the visual and tactile feedback during use. Just follow directions and don’t overdo it. The goal is turned-on, not turned-purple.

5. Vibrators For External Stimulation

Think vibrators are just for vulvas? Cute.

Many male-bodied folks are discovering the magic of external vibration on the perineum, shaft, balls, nipples, and anywhere else that feels good.

Start with something compact and versatile like WOO’s Mushroom Vibez. It’s designed for all kinds of external stimulation, but the shape, speed settings, and wide-area vibration make it ideal for edging or teasing the underside of the penis.

Great for solo play, even better when handed to a partner.

[A man with WOO’s Mushroom Vibez Sex Toy]

6. Male Masturbators With Tech

Welcome to the future.

High-tech masturbators use suction, stroking motions, heat, and even synced rhythm to deliver stimulation that feels almost like the real thing (or sometimes better). Some even sync to VR or adult content platforms.

While the price tag is higher, the sensation and control are next-level. Think of it like upgrading from flip phone to smartphone. 

7. Anal Beads And Training Kits

If you’re anal-curious but not quite ready for the full internal vibrator experience, start with anal beads or a training kit.

Anal beads allow for gradual insertion and can build anticipation as you remove them during climax. Training kits usually include multiple plugs in increasing sizes to help your body adjust comfortably.

Use plenty of lube, go slow, and breathe through it. This is supposed to feel good.

FAQ: Everything You Want to Know But Didn’t Want to Google

What are the best sex toys for men who are beginners?

Start with a pocket pussy or a vibrating cock ring. They're easy to use, body-safe, and feel great with a minimal learning curve. Add water-based lube to improve glide and comfort.

Are butt plugs and prostate massagers safe to use?

Yes, if used correctly. Choose a toy with a flared base to prevent slipping. Use generous lube and start with smaller sizes. Clean your toy before and after each use. Prostate massagers like curved vibrators are designed specifically for internal pleasure and are incredibly effective.

Can I use female sex toys as male sex toys?

Absolutely. Vibrators, wands, and even some internal toys can feel amazing on male bodies. Pleasure isn’t gendered, and neither is sensation. Explore and adapt.

Do I need to use lube with male sex toys?

Always a good idea. Lube reduces friction, prevents irritation, and enhances sensation. For anal sex or prostate toys, oil-based lubes like Love Oil feel luxurious (but don’t pair with latex condoms). For sleeves and cock rings, use water-based.

How do I clean male sex toys?

Use warm water and mild soap or a dedicated toy cleaner. Make sure the toy is completely dry before storing. Check if it’s waterproof or has removable parts before submerging. Hygiene is sexy.

Final Thoughts On Male Sex Toys

The types of male sex toys out there are as diverse as pleasure itself.

Some people love a good prostate buzz. Others prefer stroking sleeves that mimic the real thing. Some want to feel vibration across their entire body. Some want to try everything.

And honestly? Every approach is valid. You don’t need a reason to want to feel good. You need curiosity, good communication (even with yourself), and a toy that feels right.

Whether you’re easing into anal toys or discovering the joy of external vibes, male pleasure is not one-size-fits-all. It's a buffet. So grab your lube. Pick your toy. And explore what your body’s been trying to tell you.

Good sex starts with your own hands. Great sex might just start with a toy.