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Spanking? Feet? Threesomes? Your Fantasies Are Completely Normal and Totally Awesome.

Raise your hand if you've ever struggled to put a finger on what really turns you on 🙋‍♀️.  Surprise, you are not alone!  For many of us, it can be difficult to articulate our sexual desires.

Oftentimes, we end up going through the motions of sex, which can commonly manifest into feeling like our sex life is boring or stale.  However, we forget that sex is something that should be exciting and exploratory.  

Fortunately, everyone has something that gets them going, and we're here to help you uncover yours.  Trust us, there are immense benefits to getting to know yourself *wink wink*. 

Understanding our sexual desires empowers us to better communicate with our partners to make our fantasies and desires a tangible part of our sex life.  More so, when we start to uncover our sexual desires and engage with them, we unlock a much more fulfilled and glowing self.

It's time to tap into your inner sexual goddess (or god)...

First things first… Make a list.

Carve out 30 minutes of time to sit down and really take a deep dive into your sexual preferences.  We love to first start by clearing our mind with a little bit of box breathing , a Gabby Bernstein meditation , or even tapping .  This allows us to tap into a much centered and clearer space that is not blocked by the conscious mind and thoughts from the day.

Begin by making a note of what you do and what you don't like.  It can be as simple as "I love having my hair pulled," or "I love the feeling of leather on my body."  It doesn't matter what you write, as long as you are able to get in touch with how you feel. Take yourself to a deep mental place here. 

You may find that some patterns and trends start coming about, which is exactly what you want.  It allows you to see different ways to play with what you do enjoy.  On the contrary, it may allow you to see what situations lead to less satisfying outcomes.

WOO Tip : Don't forget your senses!  What words or tone of voice turns you on?  Is there a smell that makes you want to melt?  How about a sweet taste that turns you on?  (Hint: The taste of Love Oil does it for us)

Now that you have a general idea of what turns you on, and what turns you off, think about what turns you on when you pleasure yourself.

Is there a common storyline or fantasy you fancy?  Is there a specific act or scenario you are inclined to?

Perhaps there is a scene or a dynamic that turns you on.  Something you find yourself going back to over and over again.  By understanding and breaking down what your mind is aroused by, you can begin to paint a picture of your fantasy.

WOO Tip: Make this interactive! Pull out your trusted porn, erotica, whatever it may be, and see how different scenarios make you feel.  When you find something you like, use your 5 senses to see how you can elevate the experience.  Will the scent of lavender take your experience to the next level?  Maybe a silk eye cover?

*Hint: We love freezing Vibez for 15 minutes and playing around with cool sensations ;)

Now that you’ve got a good basis of what turns you on, it's time to get your creative juices flowing.

Take 5 minutes to write down your fantasy.  It doesn't have to be perfect, just allow yourself to jot down what comes to mind and piece it together as you go.  

Don't judge yourself, don't censor yourself, just be true to yourself.  Every fantasy is valid, nothing is off limits, and nothing is weird (as long as it is safe) or (as long as it is between consenting adults!)  Allow yourself the freedom and space to come home to your sexual wants and desires.  

Fantasy → Reality

Now that you have a grasp on what you fancy, it's time to make it a reality.  For many, this can seem daunting, but those who dare, win.

Try experimenting in a context that feels safe to you.  Maybe that is asking your partner to use a certain object on you.  Or perhaps it means finding someone new to go on a wild ride with.  Either way, it is important to make sure your lover has given consent and has clear boundaries for your sexual endeavor.

WOO Tip: Want to test the waters with your partner?  Try playing our Nightcap Card game at the end of the night.  See what cards excite you and your partner and what cards don't.  Talk about the card and what you're comfortable with.

Uncovering your sexual fantasies and desires is a life-long commitment.  For many of us, our preferences evolve and change, which is completely normal!  The important part is to consciously commit to cutting out things that are turn-offs and replace them with turn-ons.  

Be patient with yourself and allow your fantasies to surface.  Don't get down if not all of your experiences are mind-blowing, it is all a part of a much larger, more beautiful sexual journey.  And don't shame yourself if a fantasy feels abnormal, remember, we're all thinking about something that we don't always say out loud. 

WOO is always here for you- to inspire, listen, and support you on your journey.  So cheers to empowering yourself! 

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