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The 25 Best Sexy Gift Ideas Of All Time

(lube & toys)

The gifts that keep on giving

When holidays roll around, why stick to the basics? Whether you're hunting down something special for him or her, or crafting a DIY present, there's no shortage of ways to make your partner feel cherished (and fired up). This is the version of Santa’s naughty list he never wanted you to see –WOO’s got you though– with 25 sexy gift ideas.

Gifts For Him

When you're on the hunt for sexy gifts for the #MCM in your life, it's all about practicality and a dose of thrill. Think thoughtful yet delightfully naughty.

1. Sexy Board Game

Amazon is stacked with adult board games that'll have you giggling, blushing, and undressing one clothing item at a time. From cards that lead to strip teases to dice games that push you to explore each other’s bodies, these games promise to disrupt the norm and guarantee everyone is a winner.

2. Personalized Boxers

Take a classic gift up a notch with personalized boxers. Whether it’s your face plastered across them or a cheeky phrase like “property of [your name here],” it’s a gift that’ll keep him smiling (and thinking of you) every time he wears them. Check out Etsy or a local print shop to create customized boxers that scream, “I own this.”

3 The Bed Breaker Bundle

Looking for a gift that’ll have him ready to hit the sheets? Grab the Bed Breaker Bundle, turn up the heat, and turn down the lights. This all-in-one kit packs everything you need: silky coconut oil lube (yes, you can eat it) plus handy Freshies Wipes for the aftermath of whatever goes down.

4. A Boudoir Photoshoot

Book him a sultry surprise he’ll never forget—a boudoir photoshoot starring yours truly. Whether he stashes the X-rated pics in his wallet or keeps them tucked away for his ~private playtime, it’s a personal and intimate gift that reminds him of just how irresistible you are. Plus, who doesn’t love an excuse for a good glam sesh and a few hours of feeling like Marilyn Monroe? 

5. A Sex Pillow

Level up his pleasure—literally—with a sex pillow. These clever cushions are engineered to provide the perfect angles for deeper, more satisfying penetration. This sex pillow is a stellar sex gift that can really bring the heat to your sex life. 

6. Vibrating Cock Ring

Ready to introduce a little tech into your bedroom? A vibrating cock ring is a fun toy worth surprising him with. Not only does it enhance his stamina, but it also sends waves of extra stimulation your way, making this gift a double delight.

7. Massage Oil

If you're shooting for a steamier, more sensual vibe, surprise him with some top-shelf massage oil. Light up some candles, dim the lights, and get ready to deliver a slow, seductive massage that’ll have him melting. PS. Our Love Oil lube doubles as a massage oil.

8. Stroker Toy

If you’re looking to keep him smiling even when you’re not by his side, a stroker (aka a pocket 🐱) is the way to go. These toys are made for his solo adventures but trust us, they’re a spicy addition to partnered play, too.

Hunt down one that’s packed with intense sensation capabilities. Strokers nail the sweet spot for mind-blowing pleasure, making them a killer, practical addition to your arsenal of sexy gift ideas for him.

9. Silk Robe

Make him feel like the king he is with a silk robe. Not only is it great for lounging; whether he’s slipping it on after a few rounds or slipping it off for another, a silk robe is a must-have to make him feel both pampered and irresistible.

Gifts For Her

When you're shopping for her, it's all about thoughtfulness and finding things that will ignite passion. Whether you're aiming to spoil her, get playful, or maybe dial up the kink a notch, these sexy gift ideas will have you treating her right.

11. Sexy Lingerie

A timeless classic for a reason—sexy lingerie is the ultimate confidence booster. Pick something she’ll look good in, but more importantly, choose a piece that you’re sure she’ll adore. Whether it’s delicate lace, smooth silk, or something strappy and daring, this gift is all about her feeling like the hot girl she is.

12. The She Cums First Bundle

Packed with the coconut-flavored Love Oil and the Vibez Disco Stick (a highly sensational clitoral vibrator), the She Cums First Bundle is all about making her needs the main event. Just like the name suggests, this is one sexual gift designed to knock her socks off—trust us, she’s going to love every minute of it.

13. A Couples Massage

A couples massage ticks all the boxes: romantic, luxurious, and unforgettable. This sexy gift idea for her is all about unwinding together and laying the groundwork for some fiery follow-up fun. 

14. Vibez Disco Stick

The Vibez Disco Stick is a powerful clitoral vibrator that’ll rock her world. This sleek, little powerhouse will quickly become her new go-to for solo play—or maybe something you can enjoy together.

15. A Kinky Sex Swing

If your relationship is next-level in the kink department, a sex swing is the ultimate gift. It opens up a whole new realm of possibilities, letting you experiment with positions that were previously impossible. Get ready for some wild adventures with this sexy gift!

16. Fluffy Handcuffs

Sure, they’re cliché, but that’s because they work. Exploring restraints adds a whole new dimension to your intimate life. Fluffy handcuffs are a playful, non-intimidating way to start. Once you dip your toes into this avenue, there’s no going back—it’s the gift that keeps on giving.

17. Gifts For The 5 Senses

Engage all five senses with a gift designed to tempt each one. Think scented candles for scent, silk sheets for touch, chocolates for taste, and a playlist of seductive music for sound. This multi-sensory experience will sweep her off her feet.

18. Bath Bombs

Want something thoughtful and hot? Gift her a selection of deliciously scented bath bombs! You can make it sexier by writing a note saying, “For the both of us,” implying you’ll be joining her for a time in the tub. There’s nothing quite like getting steamy (in every sense of the word).

19. A Romantic Weekend Getaway

Surprise her with a romantic weekend away, whether it’s to a cozy cabin in the woods or a beachfront villa. A change of scenery and private time together will be an unforgettable Valentine Day gift—or any gift at all. No reason required, just give her a sexy holiday anytime you see fit. (She didn’t tell us to write that - we promise).

20. Sexual Choker

Need a sex gift idea that adds a bit of edge? A choker is the way to go (and no, not the middle school relic you’re thinking of). This simple, yet brilliant option brings a subtle kink into your intimate moments, and will likely turn her on from the get-go.

21. Freshies Intimate Wipes

Toss a fresh twist into her gift basket with some pH-balanced, coconut-scented wipes. Freshies Intimate Wipes are the go-to for a clean-up post-session or a refreshing pick-me-up before sex. Pair these with a few other naughty gifts from this list, and you'll have the ultimate bedroom gift set.

DIY Gifts

Who says you need to spend a fortune for a thoughtful, sexy gift? DIY gifts can be just as meaningful (and hot). Time to get crafty.

21. Light Me Up Candle

Create a custom candle with a message saying “Light me when you want me naked.” Print out the text and glue it to the candle. Score extra points by choosing one that doubles as massage wax—because who doesn’t love a two-for-one deal? This humble candle will be your one-way ticket to an unforgettable evening (or many).

22. Naughty Love Coupons

Get creative with homemade coupons that your partner can cash in for sexy favors. Throw in some “vanilla” options like breakfast in bed, and mix it with spicy ones like an hour long body massage that might end in something even better (it will).

23. A Classy Date Night

This one’s sorta DIY because you’ve got to plan ahead. There’s nothing quite like getting dressed up for a night out. Tell your partner to wear their best and surprise them with reservations at an upscale restaurant. The fancy ambiance serves as foreplay, with you both knowing the night will end with a bang.

24. Kinky Truth Or Dare

If you love a bit of suspense and a lot of fun, craft some naughty truth-or-dare cards. Think: "What’s your wildest fantasy?" or "Give me a strip tease." The possibilities are endless, and it’ll keep you both entertained (and turned on) for hours. P.S. There’s no shame in asking ChatGPT for ideas.

25. Sexy Jenga

Drunk Jenga? We hardly know her.  This version will get you drunk on desire. Buy a regular Jenga set and write sexy actions on each block, like “oral for 5 minutes,” “whisper something dirty,” or “give me a strip tease.”

Every block you pull leads to something hotter; by the end, you’ll have more than just a game night. It’s a playful, DIY sex gift that guarantees fun 100%. You two decide what the winner gets…

Final Thoughts on Sexy Gift Ideas

There you have it—the 25 best sexy gift ideas of all time. Whether you're looking to spoil him, pamper her, or get creative with a DIY project, these sexy gifts are designed to turn up the heat and deepen your connection. From sensual massages to custom-made gifts, we bet there’s something here for every type of relationship.

So, go ahead and surprise your partner with one (or a few) of these sensual gifts—because nothing says "I appreciate you" like turning up the heat and having fun together.

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