While skydiving is cool, there are sexier ways to get your adrenaline pumping. And yes, we’re talking about sex (did you have to ask?). A sex bucket list is the perfect way to shake things up, step out of your comfort zone, and keep things exciting in and out of the bedroom. 

So, here are 69 sexy things ready and waiting to give you a sex life that’s well lived.

1. Play A Sex Game

Nothing breaks the ice like a little playful competition. Naughty dice? Strip poker? Let’s play.

2. Join The Mile High Club

Intimacy at 30,000 feet? It’s the thrill of a lifetime—but don’t get caught! (which is kinda half the fun).

3. Try Edging

Take them to the edge of climax, then stop. Tease, repeat, and watch them lose their minds with anticipation (Here’s how to do it).

4. Explore The Food Play Kink

Sticky syrup, whipped cream, and more— food play makes your partner’s body the buffet of your dreams. Just avoid sticky stuff down south!

5. Experiment With Voyeurism or Exhibitionism

Like the idea of being watched or watching each other? Start safe with a sexy video call, or find a willing participant to join the fun.

6. Watch Porn Together

Pick a steamy video, get cozy, and let the inspiration flow. This sexy bucket list item is quite underrated TBH. Don’t knock it till you try it!

7. Give Each Other A Sensual Massage

Grab some warm oil and explore every inch of their body. Bonus points if you tease their erogenous zones (their non-sexual parts that are suuuper sensitive ––like their inner thighs or neck).

8. Try Temperature Play

Hot and cold sensations are the name of the game. Ice cubes, warm oils—it’s time to bring the heat in more ways than one.

9. Act Out A Role-Playing Fantasy

Doctor and patient, boss and assistant—whatever floats your boat. Costumes are optional, but sex is a must.

10. Add A Mirror To The Action

Position a mirror to watch the magic happen. It’s sexy, intimate, and gives you an unbeatable POV.

11. Try Tantric Sex

Slow it down. Breathe together, lock eyes, and savor every second. It’s all about connecting on a deeper level (both physically and mentally).

12. Introduce Bondage Or Restraints

Think silk ties, under-the-bed straps, or bondage rope. This kinky sex bucket list item builds trust and sends your sex life to a new dimension. Just remember to set a safe word!

13. Have Mutual Masturbation Night

Watch each other, learn what feels good, and put your hands to good use. Here are some sexy mutual masturbation positions to introduce to your bedroom fun.

14. Try Anal Play

A finger, a butt plug, or even a little external massage—anal exploration is something you’ll regret not trying at least once (seriously, it can be so damn good). Remember to use plenty of lube.

15. Have Shower Sex

No sex bucket list would be complete without this steamy addition.

16. Dress Up

Spice it up with lingerie, costumes, or even their button-up tee —just add sex.

17. Use A Remote-Controlled Sex Toy In Public

Tease them discreetly during dinner or a movie. It’s your naughty little secret that will have you ripping each others’ clothes off as soon as you enter your front door.

18. Explore A Hidden Fantasy

Admit something you’ve always wanted to try and make it happen. Vulnerability? Sexy. Acting on it? Pure ecstasy.

19. Try BDSM

Spanking, choking, a leather whip —start slow and let this super kinky form of play escort you to oh-my-god-worthy pleasure. 

20. Sensory Deprivation Play

Blindfolds or noise-canceling headphones heighten touch and anticipation. Trust us, it’s hotter than it sounds.

21. Write Erotic Stories About Each Other

Take turns writing sexy fantasies about each other and read them aloud (or just watch them smirk while they read it themselves). It’s literally foreplay for the imagination.

22. Have Sex Outside

A secluded beach, your backyard under the stars—adding outdoor intimacy to your sex bucket list is equal parts thrilling and romantic. Just don’t break any laws please – we can’t afford to bail you out. 

23. Add Toys During Penetration

It’s time to double the fun (and, more importantly, the stimulation) with cock rings, vibrators, an extra penetrating dildo…. you get it. Looking for some inspo? You’re in the right place.

24. Explore Dominance And Submission

Take turns taking control or surrendering. The trust and power exchange can be incredibly intimate and thrilling when added to your couple's bucket list.

25. The "Anything But Penetration" Challenge

Want a bucket list item that will drive you wild? Focus entirely on kissing, touching, and oral for a night. 

26. Visit A Strip Club Together

If you’re a couple open to exploring things, this one’s pretty fun, especially a couple’s lap dance. If you’re single, it’s just as fun really.

27. Bring In A Third Party

Threesomes are popular for a reason, and if you have the opportunity (and desire), trust us, you won’t regret it! The key to introducing your partner to a threesome is all about communication and respecting each other’s boundaries.

28. Try Phone Sex

Long-distance or not, a sultry phone call or FaceTime session might just be your new favorite pastime.

29. Use Nipple Clamps

A little extra stimulation can go a long way. Start light and adjust to your comfort level.

30. Sex On The Washing Machine

That spin cycle isn’t just for laundry. Let the vibrations add to your fun, just so that you can say you’ve done it (but you might just want to do it again).

31. Try A Butt Plug

Calling all girls, guys, gays, and theys. Giving your ass some sexual attention is so worth trying, no matter which way you swing.

32. Hook Up In A Hot Tub

The perfect backdrop for getting handsy and more.

33. Do a Striptease

Turn up the music, dim the lights, and slowly undress for your partner. Don’t forget to tease them until they can’t take it anymore.

34. Experiment With Dirty Talk

Shy? Start small. Confident? Go wild. Either way, words can be a major turn-on when done right.

35. Film Yourselves

Looking for a couple's bucket list option? If you’re both comfortable with it, having sex like you're porn stars on camera is seriously sexy.

36. Try A Sex Swing

It’s playful, adventurous, and so worth the investment.

37. Have Sex On A Trampoline

Extra bounce? Yes, please.

38. Try Ice Cubes During Foreplay

Glide an ice cube across your partner’s body. We bet you’ll love watching them tense up in anticipation.

39. Plan A Camping Hookup

The fresh air, the secluded tent, the thrill of being outdoors—it’s fucking in tents.

40. Try A Ball Gag

If you’re ready to get a little kinky, introducing a ball gag into your play might just be your new thing. 

41. Roleplay As Strangers

Meet at a bar or coffee shop, pretend you don’t know each other, and let the fantasy unfold.

42. Explore A New Sex Position

Explore the Kama Sutra or tick every one of these 50 sex positions off your bucket list. You’ll definitely never get bored.

43. Hook Up Post-Workout

Take advantage of those endorphins. Nothing beats the heat of spontaneous post-gym sex.

44. Try Queening (Sitting on Their Face)

This one speaks for itself. Take charge, explore power dynamics, and make oral sex unforgettable.

45. Give A Footjob

YOLO, so you might as well try it. Maybe you have a foot fetish that you didn’t even know about.

WOO tip: Explore this often-overlooked move with some lube. 

46. Be As Loud (Or Quiet) As You Can

Set a challenge: be as loud as possible one time, and as quiet as possible another. Both are thrilling in their own way. *Cue Neighbors Know my Name by Trey Songz*

47. Use Flavored Lube

Whether it’s strawberries and cream or frosting-flavored lube, it’s time to make sex feel like dessert.

48. Have Sex In Every State

Wherever you live, here’s an excuse to explore your country. Whether it’s the beach, mountains, or a cabin in the woods—every trip deserves a steamy moment.

49. Experiment With Orgasm Control

Don’t let them finish or make them finish over and over again. Orgasm control is so worth checking off the bucket list.

50. Give Your Partner A Blended Orgasm

Heighten their senses by stimulating all pleasure spots. For men, this could include teasing their balls while giving head, for women this could be both g-spot and clit stimulation.

51. Give A Sexy Wake-Up Call

Surprise your partner with morning kisses and touches that lead to a sexy morning sesh.

52. Attend A Sex Party

If you’re both comfortable, check out a sex-positive event to explore voyeurism, exhibitionism, or just to feed your curiosity.

53. Incorporate A Sex Pillow

A simple pillow can make a world of difference. This sex bucket list is just the excuse you needed.

54. Try A Rim Job

Your back door is super sensitive, and it’s totally worth experiencing new avenues of oral pleasure.

55. Make A Personalized Sex Playlist

Compile songs that get you both in the mood and let the rhythm guide you.

56. Have Sex With (Most Of) Your Clothes On

Just be sure to wear easy-access skirts, and easy-to-unzip pants for a rather unique take on sex.

57. Try Oral While Smoking

Smokers, we see you. For a 420-friendly experience, no one’s stopping you from experiencing the pleasure of oral and a J (or bong rip or blunt, or however you prefer to self-medicate).

58. Have Sex While High

Experience sex with a little help from substances (but keep it legal 😉). P.S. Sober consent beforehand is key.

59. Suck Their Toes

If you’ve never ventured into foot play, now’s the time. This unexpected erogenous zone might surprise you both. See tip 45 for a step up.

60. Only One Partner May Climax

Make a challenge out of holding back—only one person gets to climax. The next time? Switch roles.

61. Be Spontaneous In A Hotel Room

Sometimes, a change of scenery can work wonders. Let loose in a hotel room like a naughty couple of teenagers

62. Share Erotica

Read sexy stories together to explore fantasies, spark new ideas, and add something unexpected to your night.

63. Try Showerhead Stimulation

Test out your bathroom’s showerhead as an addition to foreplay or solo play!

64. Climax At The Same Time

This takes practice, patience, and communication, but when it happens, the synchronicity is absolutely electric.

65. Have Sex In A Car

A quickie in the backseat is pretty hot if you ask us.

66. Try A Publicly Private Makeout

Find a quiet corner and indulge in a steamy makeout session. PDA isn’t for everyone but trying it once won’t hurt!

67. Get Wet With A Body Shot

Incorporate drinks into foreplay by taking a body shot off your partner. It’s the right kind of messy.

68. Give Viagra A Try

Hey, it's a name brand for a reason. Viagra is great for overcoming Erectile Dysfunction and also just a good marathon session. Looking for something a bit more ~youthful? Try sex-enhancing chocolate, honey, or even wipes - you’d be surprised what’s out there!

69. Have Birthday Sex

Balloons are so last year. It’s time to get lucky on your birthday.

Final Thoughts on Your Sex Bucket List

This sex bucket list is there to help you explore, laugh, and experience sex that’s simply unforgettable. It’s all about finding new ways to connect, embracing your adventurous side, and having fun along the way. So, which one will you cross off first?