11 Ways for HER to Orgasm
We love you, but there is nothing like the female orgasm.
No seriously, NOTHING. While it’s true that the rate of orgasm for men is higher (we’ll close that orgasm gap one day, don’t worry), OUR female advantage is that our erectile tissue is spread out over a larger area, aka we have more erogenous zones to enjoy.
TLDR: There are more ways for us to reach climax! So while it can be more difficult to achieve orgasm, there are so many more fun ways to have mind-blowing orgasms. What we’re saying, WOO Babes is–
Did you know that there are 11 WAYS TO ACHIEVE FEMALE ORGASM?!
To clarify, we sadly do not mean that there are 11 different types of orgasms. We mean that there are 11 different ways to induce amazing sensations. So picture this as a really fun game to play with your partner– how are you going to make me cum tonight?
We’re about to blow your mind. Literally.
11 Ways to Make Her Cum.
Let’s start with the basics: The delicious clitoral orgasm. The clit literally has no purpose other than to bring us sexual pleasure. So bow down to the clit, she is here to serve! Explore yourself (or your partner) and find out what they like/don’t like. Do they prefer direct or indirect stimulation of the clit? Soft or firm pressure? Constant stimulation or more of a rhythmic exploration?
WOO Tip: Warm up some Coconut Love Oil in your hand and go on a treasure hunt. Activity guide HERE.
Oh em geeee is this spot f*cking awesome. Said best by Healthline, the G spot was introduced by Dr. Beverly Whipple after she discovered that using a “come here” motion along the inside of the vagina produced a physical response in women. She believed that this region could be the key to women achieving orgasm during sex. While we now know there are many different ways for women to achieve orgasm during sex, the g-spot is truly magical. And yes, a g-spot orgasm can be achieved either solo or with a partner (solo is easiest with a curved, internal toy).
WOO Tip: Try to empty your bladder before g-spot stimulation. G–spot orgasms can tend to make women feel like we’re peeing, and we can hold ourselves back from orgasming due to nerves. Sit back, relax, and let it go. Whatever happens, happens.
Long story short, the blended orgasm is when you combine clitoral stimulation with another type of stimulation like your nipples, your g-spot, anus, etc. This orgasm will blow your mind.
WOO Tip: Master the art of the clitoral orgasm first, and then start to play with incorporating your g-spot stimulation at the same time. *Magic*
Throw out everything you’ve heard negatively about anal sex. When done right, anal can provide one of the most pleasurable and intense experiences a woman can have sexually. Did you know that there are shared nerves from the anterior wall of the rectum to the vagina AND that the legs of the clitoris can stretch all the way back to the anus? You’re welcome.
WOO Tip: Go slow, switch-up pressures, make it rhythmic, and enjoy every feeling. Include Vibez externally! Anal orgasms are much easier to achieve when you have a helping hand.
Yes babe, you read that right. Some lucky women can orgasm from nipple stimulation alone. The trick here: don’t focus on achieving orgasm. Enjoy the feeling, focus on your pleasure, and see where intense oral and manual stimulation can take you.
WOO Tip: Don’t focus solely on the nipples for this type of stimulation. Light your Hintz candle and use the body oil to give your partner a full body massage. Work your way down and up their arms and sides, across their collar bone and the top of their chest, lightly brushing by and teasing the nipples as you go. Building anticipation is key– don’t head to the nipples until your partner is begging.
Never heard of the c-spot? Your c-spot (or the deep vaginal erogenous zone as some call it) = your cervix and all of the nerve endings located in the cervix and around the uterus. If your partner still has their cervix (which can sometimes be removed due to certain procedures like a hysterectomy), this sort of orgasm can feel wildly different from others that they will experience during penetration.
WOO Tip: C-spot orgasms require women to be extremely turned on and comfortable in their sexual environment. Focus on other pleasurable activities and save the deep, c-spot thrusting until you’re nearing the end of penetration. Keep your eyes and ears on hers as she tells you if she’s enjoying the type of pleasure that comes from intensely stimulating this spot.
Squirting = female ejaculation. And yes, it’s real, we promise. Said best by California-based OBGYN, Dr. Sherry Ross, when some women are extremely aroused, there is an expulsion of fluid from the glands around the urethra or anterior surface of the vagina during or before orgasm. The fluid is typically clear and does not resemble urine, and the amount will depend squirt to squirt.
WOO Tip: Don’t put too much pressure on trying to achieve the squirting orgasm. This can lead to orgasm and performance anxiety for both partners. Enjoy the moment and if it happens, it happens!
A coregasm is an exercise orgasm, and turns out a large percentage of women can experience this pleasurable (albeit sometimes untimely) experience. The short of it is, performing repeated reps of certain core exercises can result in an extremely pleasurable orgasm. Newsflash to personal trainers, sometimes that moan out of your client is not due to your hard work. Sorry, not sorry.
WOO Tip: Don’t listen to us, listen to them.
A skin orgasm is similar to goosebumps: that tingle that runs up and down your entire body when you hear/smell/or see something that is particularly exciting to you. According to research, skin orgasms are most commonly triggered by music. So next time you hear your partner yell, “that’s my jam” they might be experiencing much more than just karaoke excitement.
WOO Tip: Try listening to our fave baby-making playlist before entering the bedroom.
Don’t rush into sex! Exploring different types of sensory sex will heighten every experience between you and your partner. One of our favorite types of sensory sex? Breath play. According to The New Sex Bible author, Anne Hartwick, your breath deeply impacts your interpretation of sensations and helps catapult your mind into a state open to experience pleasure. AKA you can quite literally breathe your way to climax.
WOO Tip: Blindfold your partner and play with their senses. Touch, smell and taste each other until she is fully engorged. Put your lips close to their skin (but not touching!) and alternate breath patterns as you make your way up and down her body, paying special attention to her erogenous zones. Take your time and both of you will enjoy every breath.
Ok let’s be fair, all genders can experience a sleep orgasm. BUT the female sleep orgasm is a true *chef’s kiss* as the kids say. Unfortunately, there is no real trick or way to enduce a sleep orgasm, but try watching a sexual movie or having an arousing moment before bed without achieving orgasm. If you’re lucky, the delayed gratification will make its way into your dreams. Counting sheep helps too.
WOO Tip: Watch 365 Days on Netflix and don’t masturbate or have sex. SURELY this will result in wild dreams for both you AND your partner.
Is anyone else ready to have an orgasm? Grab our favorite duo and get busy.