Let’s get this out of the way: using lube isn’t a sign of anything being "wrong." It’s not cheating. It’s not a backup plan. It’s not a sign you’re broken, bored, or too old for this.

It’s a sign you’re into fun and extra pleasure.

Because when it comes to increasing sexual pleasure, reducing friction, and making intimacy smoother, wetter, and oh-so-much better, lube is your ride-or-die.

So if you’re wondering what is lube used for, or when it makes sense to apply lube (hint: way more often than you think), here’s everything you need to know, without the awkward pharmacy aisle energy.

Key Takeaways

• Lube reduces friction and makes all forms of sex smoother and safer.
• It’s essential for anal sex (no natural lubrication there).
• It helps with vaginal dryness due to hormones, stress, or medication.
• Different types of lubricants serve different purposes: water-based, silicone-based, oil-based.
• Lube can increase sexual pleasure, sensation, and help prevent irritation.
• You can use lube solo or partnered, with or without toys
• WOO’s Le Ménage à Trois bundle includes all three types, so you can try them all and see what your body loves

What Is Lube Used For, Really?

Lube’s job is simple: make things glide.

It works by reducing friction between body parts, or between a body and a toy or condom. That can mean less irritation, more comfort, and a major upgrade in sensation.

Natural lubrication is great, but it’s not always reliable. Stress, alcohol, hormonal changes, antidepressants, and menopause - these things can dry things up fast. And no matter how turned on you are, sometimes your body doesn’t catch up in time.

So instead of suffering through a squeaky session, you apply lube. Problem solved. (Or at least a lot more fun.)

When Should You Use Lube?

Short answer: When in doubt, apply lube. Long answer? Here are the moments where a little extra slip goes a long way.

1. During Vaginal Sex

Even if things feel "okay," lube can increase comfort and pleasure for both partners. And if there’s any tightness, tension, or dryness? It’s a must.

Try oil-based personal lubricants here; they’re silky smooth, pleasure-enhancing, and don’t require frequent reapplication.

2. For Anal Sex

Anal sex requires lube. Full stop. The rectum doesn’t self-lubricate, so friction without it = pain, microtears, and irritation.

This is where silicone-based lubricants shine (plus they play nice with water and condoms). They last much longer than water-based products and don’t evaporate mid-session. Want another option? Here’s a coconut oil-based lube that glides like a dream and doubles as massage oil (just skip it if using latex condoms).

3. With Sex Toys

Using a vibe or dildo without lube? Rookie mistake. It improves sensation and protects your skin.

Apply lube directly to the toy and the body part involved. Just double-check the material: use water-based lubes with silicone toys (and oil-based if labeled compatible).

4. To Combat Vaginal Dryness

Hormonal shifts can zap your natural moisture. Whether it’s postpartum sex, menopause, birth control, or just hormonal changes from your menstrual cycle - lube can fill the gap so intimacy still feels good.

Water-based personal lubricants are ideal; they’re gentle, soothing, and don’t mess with your pH. WOO’s Shag Juice is that b*tch.

5. For Foreplay, Massage, and Solo Play

Massage oils that double as lubes (like Love Oil) let your hands wander everywhere. 

Add a sex toy, a partner, or go solo. Water-based and oil-based lube lets you extend the moment and play without rushing to the main event.

Want to edge or tease? If you’re not using a silicone toy, silicone-based lube lasts longer, so you can go for hours without reapplying.

6. Anytime Things Feel Off or Uncomfortable

Sex doesn’t have to hurt. Ever. A little lube can relieve tension, reduce friction, and make good sex feel great. Seriously, apply lube. It’s not a crutch. It’s a treat.

What Types of Lube Should You Know About?

There are three main types of lube, and each one has its moment.

Water-Based Lubes
Water-based lubes are the go-to. Lightweight, easy to wash off, and safe for condoms or silicone sex toys. Great for sensitive skin. The only downside? They don’t last as long as other lube types, so keep the bottle handy in case you need to reapply. 

Silicone-Based Lubricants
Longer-lasting, super-slick, and water-resistant (hello, shower sex). Silicone-based lube is perfect for anal or marathon sessions. Just don’t use it with silicone toys unless the label says it’s safe.

Oil-Based Lubricants
These feel rich, creamy, and amazing for massages or extended play. They also work wonders with sex toys. But oil-based lubes can break latex condoms and might not be the best fit for women prone to vaginal infections. 

If you’re curious about all the types of lube? Try WOO’s Le Ménage à Trois trio. It’s got water, silicone, and oil-based options so that you can match your mood to your moment.

FAQ On When To Use Lube

Is lube safe to use with condoms?

Yes, but it depends on the type. Water-based and silicone-based lubricants are safe to use with latex condoms. Oil-based lubricants are not safe with latex.

Can lube help with vaginal dryness?

Absolutely. Lube can mimic natural lubrication, relieve discomfort, and help make intimacy feel pleasurable again. Look for gentle, pH-balanced formulas made for sensitive skin.

What’s the best lube for anal sex?

Silicone-based lubricants last longer and stay slick, making them ideal for anal play. You can also use certain oil-based lubricants (like Love Oil) if you're not using latex protection.

Do I need to apply lube with sex toys?

Yes. It protects your body, enhances sensation, and makes everything smoother. Use water-based or oil-based lube for silicone toys unless the brand says it’s compatible with silicone lube.

Can I use lube during foreplay or massage?

Definitely. Massage oils like WOO’s Love Oil are designed for skin-to-skin play and feel luxurious. Bonus: they’re safe enough to transition from massage to more... hands-on activity.

Final Thoughts: Apply Lube Liberally, Live Happily

Lube is about pleasure. It’s about giving yourself more glide, more comfort, more time to explore. Whether you’re using water-based lubes with toys, silicone-based lube for shower play, or a sensual oil-based lube for massage and connection, there’s a lube for every occasion.

So, if you’re wondering when to use it? The answer is easy: Whenever it feels better. Because pleasure deserves an upgrade. And lube is the easiest one there is.