Him & Her Masturbation Tips
Mastering the art of masturbation can open doors to heightened pleasure and intimacy. Whether you're looking to enhance your solo play or seeking ways to spice things up with a partner, understanding different techniques tailored for women and men can make all the difference. In this guide, we get into the best of the best masturbation techniques for him and her, covering everything from basic methods to advanced tips. Let's dive in!
Masturbation Techniques for Her
- Clitoral Stimulation: The clitoris is a powerhouse of pleasure for women. Experiment with gentle strokes, massage the clit using circular motions or use a clitoral vibrator for ultimate stimulation. Explore different speeds and pressures to find what feels best.
- G-Spot Exploration: For internal pleasure, locate the G-spot, typically a few inches inside the vagina on the front wall. Use a "come hither" motion with your fingers or try a curved dildo or internal vibrator to target this sensitive area.
- Combination Play: Combine clitoral stimulation with G-spot exploration for blended orgasms. Use your fingers or a dual-action rabbit vibrator that can stimulate both areas simultaneously.
- Edging: Build arousal slowly, then pause just before reaching climax. Repeat this cycle to intensify the eventual orgasm and prolong pleasure.
- Anal Stimulation: Some women enjoy anal play during masturbation. Start with gentle external stimulation using fingers or a small anal toy, and use plenty of lubrication.
The O Gap
Where is the clit? 50% of men do not know how to find the female clitoris. This leads to the orgasm gap where only 5% of women climax during sex. With that said, women can find their erogenous zones during masturbation to amplify their pleasure during partnered sex. Remember ladies, you are in control of your pleasure. Through masturbating, educating, and exploring your body, you can help close the gap and get your O’s on!
Masturbation Techniques for Him
- Penis Stroking: Experiment with different hand motions, speeds, and pressures. Use an oil-based lubricant for a smoother experience.
- Frenulum Focus: The frenulum (underside of the penis) is highly sensitive. Focus on this area with gentle touches or light tapping.
- Ball Play: Include the testicles in your play by gently massaging or lightly tugging on them for added sensation.
- Prostate Massage: For some men, prostate stimulation can lead to intense orgasms. Use a curved prostate massager or carefully explore this area with your fingers.
- Change of Grip: Vary your grip during stroking—try using just your fingertips, a loose grip, or the whole hand to change sensations.
Keep it Mutual
Partners who masturbate together stay together! Build a deeper connection with yourself, your partner, and your body. Mutual masturbation is an opportunity for both partners to see what gets each other off the most and can be extremely arousing for many. It can also boost your libido by masturbating together!
Tips for Everyone
- Set the Mood: Create a relaxing environment with soft lighting, music, or scents that help you unwind.
- Use Lubrication: Experiment with water-based lubricant and oil-based lubricant to enhance comfort and pleasure.
- Explore Toys: Incorporate vibrators, dildos, or anal toys to discover new sensations and intensify pleasure.
- Porn & Erotica: Watch some porn and indulge in some erotic content solo, or with your partner. See what gets you both going and ride with it!
- Communicate: Don't be afraid to communicate with your partner about what feels good and what you'd like to explore together.
Get yourself Off!
Remember, masturbation is a personal journey, so take your time to explore different techniques, listen to your body, and embrace the pleasure that comes with it. Whether you're flying solo or inviting a partner to join, these techniques can elevate your sexual experience and deepen intimacy. At Woo More Play we encourage you to explore these masturbation techniques and let your desires guide you toward an orgasmic experience.
Sources:
- https://www.healthline.com/health/mens-health/how-to-masturbate-for-men#health-benefits
- https://www.womenshealthmag.com/sex-and-love/a19910594/masturbation-study/
